MTL - Lisko’s American Life-Chapter 2002 Haas' Tucao and Confidence

Seeing that there were guests at his home, Haas's whole mood changed suddenly, and he even felt extremely excited and happy about the arrival of his junior brother.

People who have not experienced this kind of feeling may find it difficult to empathize with them. Ever since his wife became pregnant, Haas felt that his entire footsteps seemed to have been tied down. Not only did he need to solve the outside world as soon as possible when he went out For all problems, go home as quickly as possible. Even if you can’t find yourself in your life, the other party may lose your temper. In order to make the other party feel satisfied with what you do as much as possible, and Minimize the possibility of the other person's mood swings as much as possible. Haas will do his best to cooperate with the other party's request. The number of times he can go out is very small. In addition to being able to communicate with the other party all day long, it's okay that he doesn't even talk to the other party for a day or two. It's quite natural to endure it, but asking yourself to behave like this for a long time is really lonely and helpless.

Suddenly seeing a person with whom he could communicate with, Haas was so happy that he was even happier and more excited than he had been recognized by any literary award. He immediately welcomed Lisko with flexible movements, and by the way, The gift brought by the other party, big and small, was transferred to the living room, and he poured a cup of tea for the other party immediately, and then he opened his own chatterbox.

"It's like this. I didn't think that I was a father for the first time. I wanted to experience every moment and process of my child's pregnancy as much as possible. I also hoped to share and spend this moment with my wife. But the real experience After reading it, I found out that it was not easy for my father. It was really shocking. I hardly had time to breathe every day. Now I almost regret the decision I made before, but man? There is always no way to change it at will, and now I don’t know how to deal with this situation.”

It can be seen that these words seem to have been held back in Haas's heart for a long, long time, but Lisko is fine. On the one hand, there are elders in the family who can help take care of them at any time, and on the other hand, there has been similar pregnancy before. Experience, when faced with similar situations, I can always have a good experience in dealing with them. Unlike myself, although I have found a lot of strategies from the Internet, sometimes I feel that the more I do, the more mistakes I make. The more you talk, the more you can always use a very small thing to arouse the other party's huge anger, and sometimes you even think it's a mistake to breathe heavily. This situation also greatly affected Haas's confidence. obstacles and traumas, and sometimes even doubt whether I can really take on the responsibility of a father, and whether I am really ready to face this situation.

After hearing his senior brother's continuous complaints, Lisko couldn't help laughing. Even when his wife was pregnant, because he knew that he might not be so good at some aspects, he didn't make such subtle remarks. Think about it, let alone take all the nursing work on yourself. You must know that you pay the corresponding salary for the nanny and confinement wife. Sometimes these experienced elders and workers have a lot to learn from you. Wherever they go, the other party can always face various situations with a better way to deal with them. These things are the experience that a newbie doesn't have at all.

Even now, I am not arrogant enough to believe that even without the help of these people, I can take good care of myself. If the wife during pregnancy does not have the talent and potential in this area, the best way It is to admit defeat in advance, change your struggling and entangled state as soon as possible, and let your wife live in a pleasant and comfortable convalescent environment as much as possible. This will greatly help your own body and the development of the baby. Keep going, if before the child is born, Haas himself puts his wife in a dangerous state because of his rush, and even himself is exhausted, wouldn't it be self-defeating.

Lisko spread his cognition and thoughts to the other party through conversation as much as possible, and it can be seen that his brother is indeed in a struggling situation, even the chubby little face is visible to the naked eye during this time The speed has been reduced a lot, the dark circles under the eyes of the whole person look abnormally obvious, and there is even a bit of depression on the face.

Live haggard.

Of course, faced with the dissuasion of his junior brother, Haas did not agree immediately, but fell into a state of contemplation for a while. His starting point was naturally good, and he wanted to experience his wife as a father as much as possible. Everything I have experienced, I also hope to contribute my own process to my wife's experience during this time through my own way. But in fact, I don’t understand a truth. Sometimes for a pregnant woman, it is enough for you to be with yourself quietly, and you don’t need to do too many superfluous things at all.

However, it can be seen that Haas can still listen to what Lisk said, and UU Reading www.uukanshu.com is also thinking about whether he needs to truly confide his feelings to his wife. The current persistence seems to be a bit of a torment for both of them. Looking for a more experienced person to help share these tasks seems to be a relief process for both of them, and there is no need for the wife to complain all day long. Looking at myself, I can't do anything well with my hands and feet.

Haas has always been in a state of superior life before. He himself lived in a relatively superior family when he was a child. In addition, he became famous when he was very young after going to school. You don't need to put too much thought into it. The whole person is also in the image of a noble son who doesn't know suffering.

I have always thought this kind of housework is very simple, even if I haven't done it myself, just watching the other party tidy up and repair on weekdays, I just go back and forth a few times, there is nothing to worry about at all, but After you really experience it, you will find that each of these things seems very subtle, but it is really tiring and cumbersome to put them all together for you to deal with.

If it’s not this material, it’s not this material. Haas won’t feel very frustrated because he didn’t do it well. People have their own strengths and weaknesses. Everyone has their own areas that they are good at. It is only natural that he is not so good at this aspect, after all, there is not much similar experience.